Thursday, June 30, 2022
Best of the Bunch (June 2022)
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in June.
No 5-star reads this month. Of the 10 books I read this month, I had two 4.5-star reads.
Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation by Parker Palmer
Good Girl, Bad Blood by Holly Jackson
Very different books! Rather than recommending a sequel, though, I'll choose the other as my Best of the Bunch:
Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation was a short but impactful book. Palmer uses some of his personal life experiences — including some vulnerable, less flattering ones — to show why it's critical that we focus more on living as our authentic, unique selves than on pursuing a life that aligns to a prescribed set of morals or a cultural definition of success. Writing from a Quaker perspective, he argues that our deepest vocation is to be the specific person we were created to be. At times he leaned more on metaphor than on practical examples — I think because he only wanted to share examples from his own personal life rather than using anyone else's vulnerable moments — and this made it hard to get a full grasp of what certain ideas would look like in practice, but on the whole this left me with a lot of valuable thoughts to reflect on.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Maurice, Jada Sly, Artist & Spy, and One Last Stop
Five years ago I was reading: In the Woods and Vanity Fair
Ten years ago I was reading: The Pillars of the Earth
Monday, June 27, 2022
Top Ten Books On My Summer TBR
I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.
It's time for another quarterly TBR! I did successfully read everything on my spring TBR list. Here are ten of the books I plan to read this summer!
1. An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
Every year my local book club has Audie Award finalists for its theme one month, and this one I nominated was selected for this year. I've never read it but it's been recommended so many times, and I'm especially excited about audiobooks when I know they're well done!
2. Burnout by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski
My friend's been an evangelist for this book since reading it, so I want to get to it soon so I know what they're talking about!
3. Girls Auto Clinic Glove Box Guide by Patrice Banks
I've been trying to get more knowledgeable about maintaining things now that I'm living on my own, so I think this will be a good resource to check out.
4. How to Read Now by Elaine Castillo
I heard about this recently on Get Booked and it sounded like a challenging and inspiring book on reading, so I put a hold on it for when it comes out in July.
5. How to Talk When Kids Won't Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King
Faber and King's How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen is one of my all-time favorite parenting books, so I'm excited to check out their newer volume that's specifically about some of the bigger challenges with kids.
6. I Wish You All the Best by Mason Deaver
I've wanted to read this for a while, and a queer book club I just joined picked this for discussion in July. I'm not sure I'll be able to go to the discussion, but it was a good push to finally pick up the book!
7. A Prayer for the Crown-Shy by Becky Chambers
This sequel to A Psalm for the Wild-Built is coming out in July, and I can't wait!
8. This Winter by Alice Oseman
I loved the Heartstopper series but was not a big fan of Solitaire. This book fits in between the events of those books and was written after Solitaire, so I'm interested to see how Oseman's writing evolved.
9. Tomorrow Will Be Different by Sarah McBride
This is another one I've been wanting to read for a while, and seeing it promoted for Pride month gave me a nudge to finally decide to read it this summer. Plus I need a little inspiration right now from an activist who's been in this work for a while.
10. The Witness for the Prosecution and Other Stories by Agatha Christie
I've now succeeded in reading all of the novels Christie wrote with Hercule Poirot, Miss Marple, and Tommy and Tuppence, and I'm starting on the short story collections that contain a mixture of different detectives. This one's up first.
What do you plan to read this summer?
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Maurice, The Case of the Soldier's Ghost, and One Last Stop
Five years ago I was reading: In the Woods and Vanity Fair
Ten years ago I was reading: A Town Like Alice
Wednesday, June 15, 2022
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
Star-Crossed by Barbara Dee: This was very cute! It felt authentically middle school to me. There were a couple of plot threads that I feel like got lost along the way and the ending felt a bit rushed, but if you're looking for something that's cute and sweet and has f/f rep for a younger audience, this is a great pick.
Paradise of the Blind by Dương Thu Hương: I thought the author had an evocative writing style that made the setting come alive, but the main character was more a symbol than someone with a personality, and I had trouble connecting with her.
We Keep the Dead Close: A Murder at Harvard and a Half Century of Silence by Becky Cooper: This was an engaging story of the author's attempts to solve a decades-old murder. This is less of a classic true-crime narrative and more about how people become invested in stories, and how that shapes not only what people think happened in the past but also what happens going forward.
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman: This is a transformational book that lived up to the major buzz that's been around it for months. Reflecting on the realities of our limited time and the necessity of dealing with life's unpredictabilities, Burkeman takes off the pressure to "get on top of things" or to spend your life a particular way. This was my Best of the Bunch for May.
So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo: Oluo's writing is pitch perfect — direct yet compassionate, succinct yet comprehensive, balancing statistics and personal anecdotes so that neither outweighs the other. She covers all the most common conversation topics around race where well-meaning (usually white) people put their foot in their mouth, from "What about class?" to "Why can't I touch your hair?"
Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation by Parker J. Palmer: This was a short but impactful book. Palmer uses some of his personal life experiences — including some vulnerable, less flattering ones — to show why it's critical that we focus more on living as our authentic, unique selves than on pursuing a life that aligns to a prescribed set of morals or a cultural definition of success.
Bridget Jones's Diary by Helen Fielding: What's disappointing about this book is that there are some really great parts, particularly the commentary of how society treats single women, but they're drowned out by Bridget's constant whining, calorie counting, uncharitable thoughts about other people, and perpetual lack of realism when making future plans. On the whole, this wasn't horrible, but it definitely wasn't for me.
Sleep Smarter: 21 Essential Strategies to Sleep Your Way to A Better Body, Better Health, and Bigger Success by Shawn Stevenson: Stevenson has compiled and clearly organized all the different areas that could potentially affect your sleep, everything from exercise and nutrition to room temperature and light exposure, but unfortunately the details of each chapter veer far into pseudoscience.
Thirteen Clues for Miss Marple by Agatha Christie: The Miss Marple stories in this collection all come from prior collections, it turns out, and so I'd read several of them already, but unlike her novels, these were short enough that many of the solutions hadn't stuck in my brain and still felt fresh to me.
Sideways Stories from Wayside School by Louis Sachar: This was super fun to revisit with my 7-year-old. While there were definitely some aspects of this 1978 publication that didn't quite hold up to 2022 scrutiny, on the whole it was just as ridiculous and funny as I remembered it, and at times an excellent satire of life in school.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Road Trip, The Case of the Counterfeit Painting, and Boy Erased
Five years ago I was reading: The Storyteller and Vanity Fair
Ten years ago I was reading: The Wisdom of Crowds
Star-Crossed by Barbara Dee: This was very cute! It felt authentically middle school to me. There were a couple of plot threads that I feel like got lost along the way and the ending felt a bit rushed, but if you're looking for something that's cute and sweet and has f/f rep for a younger audience, this is a great pick.
Paradise of the Blind by Dương Thu Hương: I thought the author had an evocative writing style that made the setting come alive, but the main character was more a symbol than someone with a personality, and I had trouble connecting with her.
We Keep the Dead Close: A Murder at Harvard and a Half Century of Silence by Becky Cooper: This was an engaging story of the author's attempts to solve a decades-old murder. This is less of a classic true-crime narrative and more about how people become invested in stories, and how that shapes not only what people think happened in the past but also what happens going forward.
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman: This is a transformational book that lived up to the major buzz that's been around it for months. Reflecting on the realities of our limited time and the necessity of dealing with life's unpredictabilities, Burkeman takes off the pressure to "get on top of things" or to spend your life a particular way. This was my Best of the Bunch for May.
So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo: Oluo's writing is pitch perfect — direct yet compassionate, succinct yet comprehensive, balancing statistics and personal anecdotes so that neither outweighs the other. She covers all the most common conversation topics around race where well-meaning (usually white) people put their foot in their mouth, from "What about class?" to "Why can't I touch your hair?"
Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation by Parker J. Palmer: This was a short but impactful book. Palmer uses some of his personal life experiences — including some vulnerable, less flattering ones — to show why it's critical that we focus more on living as our authentic, unique selves than on pursuing a life that aligns to a prescribed set of morals or a cultural definition of success.
Bridget Jones's Diary by Helen Fielding: What's disappointing about this book is that there are some really great parts, particularly the commentary of how society treats single women, but they're drowned out by Bridget's constant whining, calorie counting, uncharitable thoughts about other people, and perpetual lack of realism when making future plans. On the whole, this wasn't horrible, but it definitely wasn't for me.
Sleep Smarter: 21 Essential Strategies to Sleep Your Way to A Better Body, Better Health, and Bigger Success by Shawn Stevenson: Stevenson has compiled and clearly organized all the different areas that could potentially affect your sleep, everything from exercise and nutrition to room temperature and light exposure, but unfortunately the details of each chapter veer far into pseudoscience.
Thirteen Clues for Miss Marple by Agatha Christie: The Miss Marple stories in this collection all come from prior collections, it turns out, and so I'd read several of them already, but unlike her novels, these were short enough that many of the solutions hadn't stuck in my brain and still felt fresh to me.
Sideways Stories from Wayside School by Louis Sachar: This was super fun to revisit with my 7-year-old. While there were definitely some aspects of this 1978 publication that didn't quite hold up to 2022 scrutiny, on the whole it was just as ridiculous and funny as I remembered it, and at times an excellent satire of life in school.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Road Trip, The Case of the Counterfeit Painting, and Boy Erased
Five years ago I was reading: The Storyteller and Vanity Fair
Ten years ago I was reading: The Wisdom of Crowds
Monday, June 6, 2022
Ten Books With a Length of Time In the Title
I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week's theme is book titles with units of time in the title. I decided to pick books I've read that specify an exact length of time in the title rather than another marker of time (like "Sunday"). Here's what I came up with!
1. 168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam
2. Be a Perfect Person in Just Three Days! by Stephen Manes
3. The First 90 Days by Michael D. Watkins
4. Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
5. Gang Leader for a Day by Sudhir Venkatesh
6. Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan
7. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez
8. Twelve Years a Slave by Solomon Northup
9. A Year in the Life of William Shakespeare by James Shapiro
10. A Year of Biblical Womanhood by Rachel Held Evans
What other books fit this category?
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: On Juneteenth, The Case of the Stolen Space Suit, and A Madness of Sunshine
Five years ago I was reading: The Sun Also Rises and The Millionaire Next Door
Ten years ago I was reading: Pride and Prejudice
Tuesday, May 31, 2022
Best of the Bunch (May 2022)
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in May.
It was another good reading month! Of the 12 books I read this month, I had three 5-star reads.
Heartstopper: Volume Four by Alice Oseman
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman
So You Want to Talk about Race by Ijeoma Oluo
All excellent reads, but as the one that had the biggest immediate impact on my life, the Best of the Bunch is...
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals is a transformational book that lived up to the major buzz that's been around it for months. Burkeman cuts directly through the lies underpinning every time management strategy out there — that if you could just get on top of things once and for all, the to-dos would stop piling up and you could finally get to the stage of your life you've been waiting for. Reflecting on the realities of our limited time and the necessity of dealing with life's unpredictabilities, Burkeman takes off the pressure to "get on top of things" or to spend your life a particular way. Highly recommended.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Echo Wife, The Case of the Stolen Space Suit, and A Madness of Sunshine
Five years ago I was reading: 10% Happier and One, Two, Buckle My Shoe
Ten years ago I was reading: The Language of Flowers
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Ten Types of Comfort Reads
I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week's theme is comfort reads. Rather than just listing ten titles, I tried to think of ten different categories that encompass the different types of books I'd consider "comfort reads." These aren't so much books that I reread for comfort — since I rarely reread — but the kinds of books that provide me some kind of respite in my reading life. I read a lot of great books that are also heavy or difficult, but these books — while they may touch on heavy topics — bring a different energy to my reading life that is comforting or restorative.
1. Anything by Fred Rogers
I've enjoyed both Dear Mister Rogers, Does It Ever Rain in Your Neighborhood? and The World According to Mister Rogers. Mister Rogers' voice, even in writing, creates an oasis of calm where you can breathe easier. In his world, everything has an explanation, and even when things are hard, you can handle them. That's definitely comforting.
2. The Belgariad & Malloreon series
These sequential series hold a special place in my heart because they were important touchstones for me in middle school. There isn't a broader category I can put them in, because most fantasy doesn't constitute a comfort read for me, but these specific books do.
3. Clever, lighthearted children's books
In this category, I'd put two favorites, The Phantom Tollbooth and The Mysterious Benedict Society. There are larger-than-life characters and fun wordplay, and the world-building is thoughtful enough that I can just delight in the world and the characters.
4. Cozy mysteries
Long-time readers of this blog know that I'm working my way through Agatha Christie's full works, but I'll take comfort in anything that has a Christie-esque vibe.
5. Epistolary books
This includes both novels like The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society and nonfiction collections like 84, Charing Cross Road. In order to be done well, the characters (or actual people) writing letters need to be entertaining enough to essentially monologue for pages at a time, which gives these books the air of catching up with a friend who's telling you a story, a comforting prospect indeed.
6. Fast-paced plots centering on puzzles
Books like An Absolutely Remarkable Thing and Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore let me lose myself in the story as I race around with the characters trying to uncover a hidden solution.
7. Found family plots with snappy dialogue
A cast of fantastic, diverse side characters who all support each other even when they're bantering is my catnip. The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet and One Last Stop both fit into this category of comfort read for me.
8. The Harry Potter series
Do I recognize some of the problematic elements of the series? Yes. Do I think the author is a raging transphobe? Definitely. But is the series something I still derive joy and comfort from? Absolutely.
9. Nerdy books that aren't too dense
The most recent example I have of this is Because Internet, where I got to learn fascinating tidbits about the origins of internet language without ever feeling like it was a slog to process all the information. I read a lot of nonfiction that is on the heavier side and/or academically dense, but nonfiction that's just nerdy and fun is much more of a comfort read.
10. Quiet books about good people
There's plenty of literary fiction out there about people being awful to each other. But sometimes you can write a cast of characters that are all good people trying their best who come up against circumstances and simple misunderstandings, and that's enough to drive a plot forward, even if it's not especially action-packed. Two books that come to mind as comfort reads in this category for me are The Shell Seekers and A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.
What books would you recommend in these categories?
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Echo Wife and A Madness of Sunshine
Five years ago I was reading: Where Am I Now? and Dune
Ten years ago I was reading: The Language of Flowers
Sunday, May 15, 2022
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
SLAY by Brittney Morris: This story — Black girl creates a video game for the Black diaspora that gets picked apart in the media after a tragedy — was unlike any YA novel I'd read before, and I loved it.
A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson: I didn't know if this would live up to the hype because I'm very picky about my mystery novels, but it was incredibly satisfying and I have a hold on the sequel now.
Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World by Jack Weatherford: If you can get past Weatherford's strong pro-Mongol bias, this is a fascinating, well-researched work of nonfiction about a part of history I knew very little about.
Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction by Catherine Pearlman: I had a lot of issues with this book and definitely wouldn't recommend it as my top parenting advice book, but Pearlman does provide valuable guidance on an area that many parenting books, with their focus on feelings and attachment and play, skip over: sometimes your kid just intentionally does stuff to get attention, and if you can ignore them effectively, they'll stop.
Heartstopper: Volume Three by Alice Oseman: This was another excellent volume in a 5-star series. This one perfectly captures the experience of going on an international school trip, and we see the main characters getting to know parts of each other's lives that they hadn't previously seen.
Not Your Backup by C.B. Lee: I've kind of accepted at this point that this series doesn't have the tightest plotting or world-building, and I enjoy it for the diverse cast of great characters, the snappy dialogue, and the dramatic action scenes.
Heartstopper: Volume Four by Alice Oseman: I love that in this volume, we see Charlie dealing with his mental illness and the boys even get in a fight, but the undercurrent of deep love is still there. And the side characters are just perfection.
The Time Machine by H.G. Wells: I found this classic of science fiction interesting on several levels, especially seeing what Wells was more concerned with (commentary on the social structures of his day) and less concerned with (coherent world-building, addressing time travel paradoxes).
Thy Queendom Come: Breaking Free from the Patriarchy to Save Your Soul by Kyndall Rae Rothaus: This was a super-accessible text that encourages the reader to think about God and the Bible through a feminist lens. Whether you're already steeped in Christian feminism and looking for more inspiration or you're just starting to look for permission to ask questions about the patriarchal structures around you, this is a quick and valuable read to check out. (Don't miss Rothaus coming on the podcast in a few weeks!)
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear: I didn't enjoy the self-improvement, tech/business bro tone of the book or the heavy reliance on white dudes for examples, but I did appreciate the way the author summarized and simplified research and models previously shared elsewhere to give the reader a wide range of options for building desired habits and reducing unwanted habits.
Griffin & Sabine: An Extraordinary Correspondence by Nick Bantock: As much as I enjoyed revisiting a format I loved as a kid (envelopes pasted onto book pages with actual letters you can take out), unexplained magic, a deep connection to art, and an abrupt cliffhanger are all elements that don't resonate with me, so this wasn't my kind of book.
I Kissed Shara Wheeler by Casey McQuiston: I love McQuiston's books, but I honestly wasn't a big fan of the two main characters here, which made it challenging. However, the big cast of delightfully queer supporting characters and the message about not writing off people or places too early made this an enjoyable read overall.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Fun Home, The Galaxy, and the Ground Within, and Abuelita Faith
Five years ago I was reading: Hidden Figures and American Street
Ten years ago I was reading: The Blue Parakeet
SLAY by Brittney Morris: This story — Black girl creates a video game for the Black diaspora that gets picked apart in the media after a tragedy — was unlike any YA novel I'd read before, and I loved it.
A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson: I didn't know if this would live up to the hype because I'm very picky about my mystery novels, but it was incredibly satisfying and I have a hold on the sequel now.
Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World by Jack Weatherford: If you can get past Weatherford's strong pro-Mongol bias, this is a fascinating, well-researched work of nonfiction about a part of history I knew very little about.
Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction by Catherine Pearlman: I had a lot of issues with this book and definitely wouldn't recommend it as my top parenting advice book, but Pearlman does provide valuable guidance on an area that many parenting books, with their focus on feelings and attachment and play, skip over: sometimes your kid just intentionally does stuff to get attention, and if you can ignore them effectively, they'll stop.
Heartstopper: Volume Three by Alice Oseman: This was another excellent volume in a 5-star series. This one perfectly captures the experience of going on an international school trip, and we see the main characters getting to know parts of each other's lives that they hadn't previously seen.
Not Your Backup by C.B. Lee: I've kind of accepted at this point that this series doesn't have the tightest plotting or world-building, and I enjoy it for the diverse cast of great characters, the snappy dialogue, and the dramatic action scenes.
Heartstopper: Volume Four by Alice Oseman: I love that in this volume, we see Charlie dealing with his mental illness and the boys even get in a fight, but the undercurrent of deep love is still there. And the side characters are just perfection.
The Time Machine by H.G. Wells: I found this classic of science fiction interesting on several levels, especially seeing what Wells was more concerned with (commentary on the social structures of his day) and less concerned with (coherent world-building, addressing time travel paradoxes).
Thy Queendom Come: Breaking Free from the Patriarchy to Save Your Soul by Kyndall Rae Rothaus: This was a super-accessible text that encourages the reader to think about God and the Bible through a feminist lens. Whether you're already steeped in Christian feminism and looking for more inspiration or you're just starting to look for permission to ask questions about the patriarchal structures around you, this is a quick and valuable read to check out. (Don't miss Rothaus coming on the podcast in a few weeks!)
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear: I didn't enjoy the self-improvement, tech/business bro tone of the book or the heavy reliance on white dudes for examples, but I did appreciate the way the author summarized and simplified research and models previously shared elsewhere to give the reader a wide range of options for building desired habits and reducing unwanted habits.
Griffin & Sabine: An Extraordinary Correspondence by Nick Bantock: As much as I enjoyed revisiting a format I loved as a kid (envelopes pasted onto book pages with actual letters you can take out), unexplained magic, a deep connection to art, and an abrupt cliffhanger are all elements that don't resonate with me, so this wasn't my kind of book.
I Kissed Shara Wheeler by Casey McQuiston: I love McQuiston's books, but I honestly wasn't a big fan of the two main characters here, which made it challenging. However, the big cast of delightfully queer supporting characters and the message about not writing off people or places too early made this an enjoyable read overall.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Fun Home, The Galaxy, and the Ground Within, and Abuelita Faith
Five years ago I was reading: Hidden Figures and American Street
Ten years ago I was reading: The Blue Parakeet
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