Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Best of the Bunch (May 2022)

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Today I'm sharing the best book I read in May.

It was another good reading month! Of the 12 books I read this month, I had three 5-star reads.

Heartstopper: Volume Four by Alice Oseman

Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman

So You Want to Talk about Race by Ijeoma Oluo

All excellent reads, but as the one that had the biggest immediate impact on my life, the Best of the Bunch is...
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals is a transformational book that lived up to the major buzz that's been around it for months. Burkeman cuts directly through the lies underpinning every time management strategy out there — that if you could just get on top of things once and for all, the to-dos would stop piling up and you could finally get to the stage of your life you've been waiting for. Reflecting on the realities of our limited time and the necessity of dealing with life's unpredictabilities, Burkeman takes off the pressure to "get on top of things" or to spend your life a particular way. Highly recommended.

What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Echo Wife, The Case of the Stolen Space Suit, and A Madness of Sunshine
Five years ago I was reading: 10% Happier and One, Two, Buckle My Shoe
Ten years ago I was reading: The Language of Flowers

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Monday, May 30, 2022

Ten Types of Comfort Reads


I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.

This week's theme is comfort reads. Rather than just listing ten titles, I tried to think of ten different categories that encompass the different types of books I'd consider "comfort reads." These aren't so much books that I reread for comfort — since I rarely reread — but the kinds of books that provide me some kind of respite in my reading life. I read a lot of great books that are also heavy or difficult, but these books — while they may touch on heavy topics — bring a different energy to my reading life that is comforting or restorative.
1. Anything by Fred Rogers
I've enjoyed both Dear Mister Rogers, Does It Ever Rain in Your Neighborhood? and The World According to Mister Rogers. Mister Rogers' voice, even in writing, creates an oasis of calm where you can breathe easier. In his world, everything has an explanation, and even when things are hard, you can handle them. That's definitely comforting.
2. The Belgariad & Malloreon series
These sequential series hold a special place in my heart because they were important touchstones for me in middle school. There isn't a broader category I can put them in, because most fantasy doesn't constitute a comfort read for me, but these specific books do.
3. Clever, lighthearted children's books
In this category, I'd put two favorites, The Phantom Tollbooth and The Mysterious Benedict Society. There are larger-than-life characters and fun wordplay, and the world-building is thoughtful enough that I can just delight in the world and the characters.
4. Cozy mysteries
Long-time readers of this blog know that I'm working my way through Agatha Christie's full works, but I'll take comfort in anything that has a Christie-esque vibe.
5. Epistolary books
This includes both novels like The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society and nonfiction collections like 84, Charing Cross Road. In order to be done well, the characters (or actual people) writing letters need to be entertaining enough to essentially monologue for pages at a time, which gives these books the air of catching up with a friend who's telling you a story, a comforting prospect indeed.
6. Fast-paced plots centering on puzzles
Books like An Absolutely Remarkable Thing and Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore let me lose myself in the story as I race around with the characters trying to uncover a hidden solution.
7. Found family plots with snappy dialogue
A cast of fantastic, diverse side characters who all support each other even when they're bantering is my catnip. The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet and One Last Stop both fit into this category of comfort read for me.
8. The Harry Potter series
Do I recognize some of the problematic elements of the series? Yes. Do I think the author is a raging transphobe? Definitely. But is the series something I still derive joy and comfort from? Absolutely.
9. Nerdy books that aren't too dense
The most recent example I have of this is Because Internet, where I got to learn fascinating tidbits about the origins of internet language without ever feeling like it was a slog to process all the information. I read a lot of nonfiction that is on the heavier side and/or academically dense, but nonfiction that's just nerdy and fun is much more of a comfort read.
10. Quiet books about good people
There's plenty of literary fiction out there about people being awful to each other. But sometimes you can write a cast of characters that are all good people trying their best who come up against circumstances and simple misunderstandings, and that's enough to drive a plot forward, even if it's not especially action-packed. Two books that come to mind as comfort reads in this category for me are The Shell Seekers and A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.

What books would you recommend in these categories?

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Echo Wife and A Madness of Sunshine
Five years ago I was reading: Where Am I Now? and Dune
Ten years ago I was reading: The Language of Flowers

Sunday, May 15, 2022

What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)

Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.

SLAY by Brittney Morris: This story — Black girl creates a video game for the Black diaspora that gets picked apart in the media after a tragedy — was unlike any YA novel I'd read before, and I loved it.

A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson: I didn't know if this would live up to the hype because I'm very picky about my mystery novels, but it was incredibly satisfying and I have a hold on the sequel now.

Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World by Jack Weatherford: If you can get past Weatherford's strong pro-Mongol bias, this is a fascinating, well-researched work of nonfiction about a part of history I knew very little about.

Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction by Catherine Pearlman: I had a lot of issues with this book and definitely wouldn't recommend it as my top parenting advice book, but Pearlman does provide valuable guidance on an area that many parenting books, with their focus on feelings and attachment and play, skip over: sometimes your kid just intentionally does stuff to get attention, and if you can ignore them effectively, they'll stop.

Heartstopper: Volume Three by Alice Oseman: This was another excellent volume in a 5-star series. This one perfectly captures the experience of going on an international school trip, and we see the main characters getting to know parts of each other's lives that they hadn't previously seen.

Not Your Backup by C.B. Lee: I've kind of accepted at this point that this series doesn't have the tightest plotting or world-building, and I enjoy it for the diverse cast of great characters, the snappy dialogue, and the dramatic action scenes.

Heartstopper: Volume Four by Alice Oseman: I love that in this volume, we see Charlie dealing with his mental illness and the boys even get in a fight, but the undercurrent of deep love is still there. And the side characters are just perfection.

The Time Machine by H.G. Wells: I found this classic of science fiction interesting on several levels, especially seeing what Wells was more concerned with (commentary on the social structures of his day) and less concerned with (coherent world-building, addressing time travel paradoxes).

Thy Queendom Come: Breaking Free from the Patriarchy to Save Your Soul by Kyndall Rae Rothaus: This was a super-accessible text that encourages the reader to think about God and the Bible through a feminist lens. Whether you're already steeped in Christian feminism and looking for more inspiration or you're just starting to look for permission to ask questions about the patriarchal structures around you, this is a quick and valuable read to check out. (Don't miss Rothaus coming on the podcast in a few weeks!)

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear: I didn't enjoy the self-improvement, tech/business bro tone of the book or the heavy reliance on white dudes for examples, but I did appreciate the way the author summarized and simplified research and models previously shared elsewhere to give the reader a wide range of options for building desired habits and reducing unwanted habits.

Griffin & Sabine: An Extraordinary Correspondence by Nick Bantock: As much as I enjoyed revisiting a format I loved as a kid (envelopes pasted onto book pages with actual letters you can take out), unexplained magic, a deep connection to art, and an abrupt cliffhanger are all elements that don't resonate with me, so this wasn't my kind of book.

I Kissed Shara Wheeler by Casey McQuiston: I love McQuiston's books, but I honestly wasn't a big fan of the two main characters here, which made it challenging. However, the big cast of delightfully queer supporting characters and the message about not writing off people or places too early made this an enjoyable read overall.

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Fun Home, The Galaxy, and the Ground Within, and Abuelita Faith
Five years ago I was reading: Hidden Figures and American Street
Ten years ago I was reading: The Blue Parakeet

Monday, May 9, 2022

Ten Bookish Characters


I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.

This week's theme is "bookish characters." Here are ten characters from books that are themselves associated with books in some way!

1. A.J. Fikry (from The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry)
2. Alma Singer (from The History of Love)
3. Francie Nolan (from A Tree Grows in Brooklyn)
4. Hazel Grace Lancaster (from The Fault in Our Stars)
5. Hermione Granger (from the Harry Potter series)
6. Lazlo Strange (from Strange the Dreamer)
7. Liesel Meminger (from The Book Thief)
8. Luigi Lemoncello (from Escape from Mr. Lemoncello's Library)
9. Matilda Wormwood (from Matilda)
10. Meggie Folchart (from the Inkworld series)

Which other bookish characters can you think of?

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Sure, I'll Be Your Black Friend, The Galaxy, and the Ground Within, and The Case of the Missing Museum Archives
Five years ago I was reading: Appointment with Death
Ten years ago I was reading: The Blue Parakeet