Saturday, December 30, 2017

Best of the Bunch: December 2017


Today I'm sharing the best book I read in December.

Well, I only read four books this month — I'm working my way through The Stand on audio and Sophie's Choice on Kindle, both of which are taking a while. But I did have a 5-star read this month!


The New Jim Crow was absolutely phenomenal, if you can use such a term to describe a book so devastating. With masterful organization and clear prose, Alexander lays out the case that the War on Drugs has created a "racial undercaste" that aligns with the cultural stereotype of the "criminalblackman," disenfranchising an entire swath of the American people in much the same way that the Jim Crow era did. With statistics, quotations, and step-by-step logical arguments, she confronts head-on one misconception after another about our current state of mass incarceration: that it's due to rising crime rates; that the War on Drugs was a response to the crack epidemic; that the racial disparities are due to different rates of law breaking; and on and on. The reality she lays out is acutely painful, but it's a necessary read for any American — we should not be content with this status quo.

What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!





Monday, December 18, 2017

Top Ten Books I Hope Santa Brings


I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.

Ever since doing the KonMari method a few years ago, I've been really picky about what books I own. I'm trying to work my way through the handful of unread books on my shelf so I can decide whether to keep them. Otherwise I pretty much don't get my own copy of a book unless it's one I've read and loved so much that I want to go back and reference it, reread it, and/or lend it to other people. Here are ten that I'd be happy to own but don't yet.


1. Being Mortal by Atul Gawande
I think everyone should read this book, so it would help if I had a copy to lend out.


2. The Happy Sleeper by Heather Turgeon and Julie Wright
Although these techniques didn't really work with our toddler, I'd like to give them a go with our next kid, when it's still early enough to teach them good sleep habits.


3. How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King
This book is chock-full of practical advice and scripts — I need a copy for reference.


4. Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
Another one I want everyone — at least in America — to read.


5. The Mysterious Benedict Society boxset by Trenton Lee Stewart
I adore these books and want the complete set for my kids' bookshelf.


6. Room by Emma Donoghue
This is one my favorite books of all time, but I don't own a copy.


7. Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See
Same as above. This made the cut for my ideal bookshelf print, so it ought to be on my real bookshelf.


8. We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves by Karen Joy Fowler
Another book I love that I don't yet own.


9. The Willpower Instinct by Kelly McGonigal
This is another one that has so many tips, in this case for positive habit formation, that I'd like it on hand to reference.


10. Winter of Fire by Sherryl Jordan
This isn't necessarily one of my favorites, but it's out of print now and I'd like to own a copy for when my kids are older. It has some important messages about race and history told through a fantasy story.

What books would you like to own?

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Friday, December 15, 2017

What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)


Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.

The World According to Garp by John Irving: Maybe this was cutting-edge dark comedy in the 1970s, but I found it to be mostly an exercise in gratuitous sex and violence mixed with some ambiguous commentary on feminism and awful stereotypes of a whole range of people.

To Sir, With Love by E.R. Braithwaite: This is your typical inspirational schoolteacher story, with the twist that Braithwaite was a black teacher for predominately white children in a poor area of London in the 1950s. It's dated (particularly with regards to gender roles), but ultimately I thought it was well-written and provided a good blend of classroom scenes, Braithwaite's thoughts, his personal life, and larger school politics.

Hickory Dickory Dock by Agatha Christie: This was OK as far as the mystery went, but for the terrible compilation of various stereotypes (from the superstitious and ignorant African to the snooty French girl to the redhead with a "fiery temper") I think you can give this one a pass.

The Summer Book by Tove Jansson: This was a quiet book about a grandmother and granddaughter who spend much of the year on a small island off the coast of Finland. It was sweet, but ultimately I'm not sure how much I'll remember about it.

Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert A. Heinlein: I enjoyed this much more than I expected. It provides a nice mix of action and philosophy as we see our cultural customs through the lens of a man raised on Mars, who starts off the book as lost and naïve and ends up as a powerful character who can either be read as a Christ figure or a classic cult leader. It was fascinating and a book I'd love to discuss with others.

The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander: This book was absolutely phenomenal, if you can use such a term to describe a book so devastating. With masterful organization and clear prose, Alexander lays out the case that the War on Drugs has created a "racial undercaste" that aligns with the cultural stereotype of the "criminalblackman," disenfrancishing an entire swath of the American people in much the same way that the Jim Crow era did. This is a painful but highly necessary read.

What have you been reading this month? Share over at Modern Mrs. Darcy!

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Monday, December 11, 2017

Top Ten Favorite Books of 2017


I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.

In years past I've broken up my favorite books into two different top ten lists, one for fiction and one for nonfiction. This year, though, was just not one of my best years for reading. For five months out of twelve I had no 5-star reads. My 2017 goals also meant I read fewer books than in past years. And I ended up rereading quite a few books, which (though excellent) I'm not going to repeat from previous years' lists. So I'm going to throw all my choices together into a single list of the top ten books I read this year!


1. American Hookup by Lisa Wade
This overview of "hookup culture" on college campuses could have taken an alarmist approach, but the author instead focused on making room for the voices of actual college students about the good, bad, and ugly of hookup culture. She provided historical and sociological context for the stories and synthesized them into topic areas, but overall did a great job of keeping the students' personal experiences front and center — which also made for a better and more interesting read.


2. Everything Leads to You by Nina LaCour
I absolutely loved this unconventional YA romance. It takes places the summer after high school graduation, so while it has the voice of a YA novel, it doesn't fall into any of the well-known tropes of a "high school" story. There's a mystery, and a huge undertaking, and messages about family and loss and independence. I had tears rolling down my face at the end.


3. The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas
This book manages to be a fantastic dive into the issues driving the Black Lives Matter movement while also just being a great book, with relatable characters, funny lines, suspense, drama, and a surprisingly satisfying ending. I also love that Thomas didn't try to pander to white audiences with the book; ultimately, she didn't need to.


4. How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King
This recent publication co-authored by Adele Faber's daughter takes the techniques from Faber and Mazlish's classic books and focuses them on kids ages 2-7. Through example scenarios and concrete suggestions, they provide a toolbox of ways to deal with the challenges of parenting. I'm already looking forward to rereading it now that my son is just old enough to start using their techniques.


5. Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl by Harriet Jacobs
I found this more compelling and readable than some other true accounts of former slaves, though her experience was different enough from many others that you wouldn't want to read this in isolation. In Jacobs' case, she wasn't subjected to the worst parts of chattel slavery, so you're left to deal with the fact that her experience in slavery was wrong because it's slavery.


6. The Last Time We Say Goodbye by Cynthia Hand
This book handles the topic of suicide much more skillfully than some other recent YA novels and does not romanticize it. It speaks honestly to the process of grief and to the emotional mess that's left in the wake of someone's suicide. It's not free from YA clichés, but overall it's well done and worth a read. (Bring tissues!)


7. The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
With masterful organization and clear prose, Alexander lays out the case that the War on Drugs has created a "racial undercaste" that aligns with the cultural stereotype of the "criminalblackman," disenfrancishing an entire swath of the American people in much the same way that the Jim Crow era did. This is a painful but highly necessary read.


8. The Sleepwalker's Guide to Dancing by Mira Jacob
Jacob manages to weave together fantastic writing, a number of important themes, and a cast of complex, believable characters in this novel that took her a decade to complete. I laughed out loud more than once, and I cried near the end. It wasn't perfect, but I genuinely enjoyed the read and missed the characters when I was done.


9. The Upside of Unrequited by Becky Albertalli
I didn't really understand people saying about an author "I'd read her grocery list" until I encountered Becky Albertalli. This book made me look back on my high school self with fondness, in the same way Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda did. (It contains minor spoilers from that book, so start with Simon!) Very sweet, very relatable, and a nice example of a realistically diverse cast of characters. I'm ready to read the third book in this universe as soon as it comes out.


10. Where Am I Now? by Mara Wilson
Wilson is a talented storyteller, and I was surprised at how relatable I found most of her childhood stories. I'm glad I took the chance of picking up this book based on nothing more than my love for Matilda.

Look at that — all female authors! That was unintentional, but I guess it says something about what kinds of voices spoke to me this year.

What were your best reads of the year?

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Monday, December 4, 2017

Nine Bookish Settings I'd Love to Visit


I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.

I have a hard time with topics like this because 1) I don't like to travel that much and 2) there are many, many book settings I would never want to visit. I don't understand when I see books like The Hunger Games on lists of fictional worlds that people want to visit, or books set in historical periods when people had fewer rights and died from lots of things that are preventable today. (I know I'm too much of a realist sometimes.) Anyway, I did come up with nine books that either presented a desirable fictional world or actually made me interested in visiting some part of our world — here you go.


1. All Creatures Great and Small: Yorkshire Dales
James Herriot makes spring and summer in the Dales (at least in the 1940s) sound like the most idyllic environment one could be in — wide open blue skies, rolling hills, calm meadows.


2. Anne of Green Gables: Prince Edward Island
I've only made two very quick stops across the Canadian border, and I think this would be a fun place to visit, knowing that there are Anne-related tourist stops around the island.


3. Birdsong: WWI battlefields
I've mentioned before that my great-grandfather served in World War I, and in this book one of the main characters visits the site of a battle her grandfather fought in. It made me want to see the parts of France mentioned in my great-grandfather's memoir of the war.


4. Eat, Pray, Love: Italy
I mentioned this in my list of books that make me hungry, but this book made me want to seek out the local restaurants in Italy that don't even have a name where the food was so good it made Elizabeth Gilbert cry.


5. The Fault in Our Stars: Amsterdam
Technically I got interested in Amsterdam from John Green's videos while he was researching for The Fault in Our Stars, but either way, it sounds like a cool city.


6. The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society: Guernsey
I don't think I knew this island existed before I read this book, but it sounds like a lovely place to visit.


7. The Harry Potter series: Hogwarts
I mean... obviously.


8. The Phantom Tollbooth: Kingdom of Wisdom
I don't think I'd want to get stuck in this bizarre world of words and numbers permanently, but visit it? Totally.


9. Totto-Chan: Tokyo
I have actually visited Tokyo, but it was before I read this book. I don't know if the location of her school is marked today, but given this book's popularity in Japan I would think it's possible.

Which books would you voluntarily inhabit?

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