Tuesday, March 31, 2026
Best of the Bunch (March 2026)
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in March.
Of the 7 books I read this month, I had one 5-star read, so that's my Best of the Bunch! Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story was, dare I say, fabulous. Tobia is a delightful narrator on audio of their own story. I appreciate that they called out upfront that there is a typical, cookie-cutter "trans narrative" and that their story wasn't going to follow that at all. Instead, what followed was a real, messy, humorous recounting of their experiences from childhood through college as they grappled with societal expectations for their assigned gender and then eventually the complex journey of discovering their own gender identity and how they could best express that. Tobia's writing is alternately snarky and soulful; even at 27, they knew how to turn a phrase and then turn around and laugh at their own seriousness. They skillfully capture how their relationship with their parents doesn't fit into neat boxes of "accepting" or "rejecting." They have an absolutely must-read chapter on tokenism and their experience being accepted as a token on campus. I loved this from start to finish and would highly recommend, especially on audio.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Esperanza Rising, The Name of the Wind, More Than Two, and Fearing the Black Body
Five years ago I was reading: Tess of the Road, Womanist Midrash, and How the Irish Became White
Ten years ago I was reading: The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Under the Banner of Heaven, and A People's History of the United States
Monday, March 23, 2026
Top Ten Books on My Spring TBR
I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.
It's time for another seasonal check-in! I finished all the books on my Winter TBR. I'm still really enjoying my rainbow reading year! I'm finishing up March (pink) and planning what I'll be reading in April (red), May (orange), and June (yellow). Here are some of the books I've picked out for this season!
1. Big Friendship by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman
2. Butts by Heather Radke
3. Circe by Madeline Miller
4. Far From the Tree by Andrew Solomon
5. Laundry Love by Patric Richardson and Karin Miller
6. Let the Record Show by Sarah Shulman
7. Listen for the Lie by Amy Tintera
8. Shrill by Lindy West
9. The Sixth Extinction by Elizabeth Kolbert
10. This Is Where You Belong by Melody Warnick
What do you plan to read this spring (or fall if you're in the southern hemisphere)?
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Esperanza Rising, The Name of the Wind, More Than Two, It's Perfectly Normal, and Everything Is Tuberculosis
Five years ago I was reading: Tess of the Road, Womanist Midrash, and How the Irish Became White
Ten years ago I was reading: The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Spark Joy, Cold Sassy Tree, and A People's History of the United States
Sunday, March 15, 2026
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
I'm continuing to enjoy my project for the year of reading books of a specific cover color each month. February was gray; March is pink. It's forced me to set aside preconceptions about a book or what I think I'm in the mood for and just read a wide variety within a specific parameter (though it turns out the pink books on my TBR are mostly nonfiction!). Here's what I've read in the past month.
Snow Falling on Cedars by David Guterson: There were elements of this that I really liked: the trial scenes, the mystery, the lush descriptions, the historical elements of Japanese internment and discrimination. On the other hand, there was wayyy too much in here about male characters and their penises. If this had been a shorter book with more mystery and less penis, I think I would have liked it a lot better.
Shadows of Self by Brandon Sanderson: Sanderson is a talented writer, and I enjoyed spending more time with these characters, even if this felt a little heavy-handed at times, like he was writing with an agenda. The central mystery was engaging, the characters are delightful, and I laughed out loud multiple times.
It's Complicated: The Social Lives of Networked Teens by danah boyd: Through interviews and ethnographic studies of teens across the United States, along with research from other scholars, boyd looks out how teens use the social internet and what adults get right and wrong about it. I appreciate that boyd approached this topic with a scientific lens and pushed back on some of the alarmist rhetoric about kids and the internet. I think sometimes she pushes too far in the other direction, but it's nonetheless a helpful counterpoint to much of the discourse that tends to drive these conversations.
Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story by Jacob Tobia: Far from the cis-friendly, cookie-cutter trans narrative, this is a real, messy, humorous recounting of Tobia's experiences starting from childhood grappling with societal expectations for their assigned gender and then eventually the complex journey of discovering their own gender identity. I loved this from start to finish and would highly recommend, especially on audio.
The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend Is My Girlfriend: Advice on Queer Dating, Love, and Friendship by Maddy Court: I would not recommend this at all. There are a handful of gems throughout (mainly from the guest contributors), but mostly I was frustrated by the advice provided here. More than once I said out loud, "Did you even read the question?" It was disappointing.
We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir by Samra Habib: This was good, but I wanted more from it. It was short and felt disjointed; the story of their childhood was interesting, but then we make a sudden pivot to only talking about their queerness, something not really mentioned in the first half of the book, and they elide their journey of self-discovery to get to that point in a way I found odd for a memoir.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Only Plane in the Sky, The Name of the Wind, More Than Two, It's Perfectly Normal, and Killfile
Five years ago I was reading: I Shall Be Near to You, The Body Keeps the Score, and Freddie Ramos Takes Off
Ten years ago I was reading: The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Borderlands, Cold Sassy Tree, and The Book of Mormon
I'm continuing to enjoy my project for the year of reading books of a specific cover color each month. February was gray; March is pink. It's forced me to set aside preconceptions about a book or what I think I'm in the mood for and just read a wide variety within a specific parameter (though it turns out the pink books on my TBR are mostly nonfiction!). Here's what I've read in the past month.
Snow Falling on Cedars by David Guterson: There were elements of this that I really liked: the trial scenes, the mystery, the lush descriptions, the historical elements of Japanese internment and discrimination. On the other hand, there was wayyy too much in here about male characters and their penises. If this had been a shorter book with more mystery and less penis, I think I would have liked it a lot better.
Shadows of Self by Brandon Sanderson: Sanderson is a talented writer, and I enjoyed spending more time with these characters, even if this felt a little heavy-handed at times, like he was writing with an agenda. The central mystery was engaging, the characters are delightful, and I laughed out loud multiple times.
It's Complicated: The Social Lives of Networked Teens by danah boyd: Through interviews and ethnographic studies of teens across the United States, along with research from other scholars, boyd looks out how teens use the social internet and what adults get right and wrong about it. I appreciate that boyd approached this topic with a scientific lens and pushed back on some of the alarmist rhetoric about kids and the internet. I think sometimes she pushes too far in the other direction, but it's nonetheless a helpful counterpoint to much of the discourse that tends to drive these conversations.
Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story by Jacob Tobia: Far from the cis-friendly, cookie-cutter trans narrative, this is a real, messy, humorous recounting of Tobia's experiences starting from childhood grappling with societal expectations for their assigned gender and then eventually the complex journey of discovering their own gender identity. I loved this from start to finish and would highly recommend, especially on audio.
The Ex-Girlfriend of My Ex-Girlfriend Is My Girlfriend: Advice on Queer Dating, Love, and Friendship by Maddy Court: I would not recommend this at all. There are a handful of gems throughout (mainly from the guest contributors), but mostly I was frustrated by the advice provided here. More than once I said out loud, "Did you even read the question?" It was disappointing.
We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir by Samra Habib: This was good, but I wanted more from it. It was short and felt disjointed; the story of their childhood was interesting, but then we make a sudden pivot to only talking about their queerness, something not really mentioned in the first half of the book, and they elide their journey of self-discovery to get to that point in a way I found odd for a memoir.
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Only Plane in the Sky, The Name of the Wind, More Than Two, It's Perfectly Normal, and Killfile
Five years ago I was reading: I Shall Be Near to You, The Body Keeps the Score, and Freddie Ramos Takes Off
Ten years ago I was reading: The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Borderlands, Cold Sassy Tree, and The Book of Mormon
Monday, March 9, 2026
Ten Book Titles Featuring Ordinal Numbers
I'm linking up with That Artsy Reader Girl for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week's topic is book titles that have ordinal numbers in them. Here are ten that I've read or are on my to-read list that have ordinal numbers, arranged in numerical order!
1. The First 90 Days by Michael D. Watkins
2. The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight by Jennifer E. Smith
3. Second Helpings by Megan McCafferty
4. Third Girl by Agatha Christie
5. Fourth of July Creek by Smith Henderson
6. The Fifth Season by N.K. Jemisin
7. The Sixth Extinction by Elizabeth Kolbert
8. Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
9. Twelfth Night by William Shakespeare
10. The Thirteenth Tale by Diane Setterfield
What books have you read with ordinal numbers in the title?
Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: The Only Plane in the Sky, The Name of the Wind, More Than Two, It's Perfectly Normal, and Killfile
Five years ago I was reading: The Ten Thousand Doors of January, The Body Keeps the Score, and James and the Giant Peach
Ten years ago I was reading: The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Borderlands, The Rise and Fall of the Bible, and The Book of Mormon
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