Tuesday, September 29, 2015
Best of the Bunch: September 2015
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in September.
I was very generous with 5-star ratings this month (or I just read a lot of great books!). Of the 17 books I read in September, four earned a 5-star review from me:
Still Alice by Lisa Genova
The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare
The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom
The Mysterious Benedict Society by Trenton Lee Stewart
I recommend all of these books, but if I had to pick, I'd say the best of the bunch was...
This book was incredibly well crafted. It's told from the (third-person limited) perspective of a woman with early-onset Alzheimer's. Each chapter is one month over the course of about two years, so we can see the rapid progression of her disease. Different people in her life handle her memory loss differently, and there's rarely a "right" answer to anything. The book raises moral questions about family obligations, the option of suicide, and whether to get tested for the gene or risk passing it on to children. What made this a top book for me was that there were so many layers to this book — the plot, the structure, the questions it raises — but the writing appears effortless and easy to read. I definitely recommend picking this one up.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
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Monday, September 21, 2015
Top Ten Books on My Fall TBR List
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
As I've mentioned before, I have a very long to-read list (currently at 346 books), but I've moved books into the top 100 or so based on my goals for the year so that I have a rough idea of what to pick up next. Here are some of the books I'm hoping to get to this fall.
1. The Book of Mormon by Joseph Smith
This is part of my goal to read other holy books this year, which so far has only encompassed the Tao Te Ching. Conveniently, there were Mormons handing out copies of this outside the musical The Book of Mormon when we saw it last fall, so I got one then.
2. Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino
Like most of the books on this list, this was a recommendation from a friend. I feel like Calvino's book If on a winter's night a traveler (which I also have yet to read) is more well known, but this one has higher ratings and was personally recommended, so I'll probably start with it.
3. Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry
Another recommendation from a friend, a long time ago, as well as a frequent flyer on lists of classic books everyone should read. It's beyond time I picked this one up.
4. Murder with Peacocks by Donna Andrews
This one I heard about from a blogger friend and it seems like a fun read (another goal for this year), so I'm looking forward to it.
5. The Mysterious Benedict Society by Trenton Lee Stewart
This is one of those classic children's books that I had never heard of until recently. I got it on audiobook for baby Gregory and me to listen to, but it's so long I think I'll probably just listen to it myself.
6. The Sublime Quran trans. by Laleh Bakhtiar
I read about this translation, the first by a woman, in another book I read recently, and it seemed like a good option for tackling one of the major holy books I want to read this year.
7. The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie by Alan Bradley
Another one that is supposed to be a fun read and was a recommendation, from someone in one of my book clubs. Now that I think about it, maybe I classify all mysteries as fun reads...
8. The Unthinkable by Amanda Ripley
This nonfiction book about disaster preparedness was recommended to me a few years ago by a friend, and it seems timely now with the recent buzz about the pending Cascadia earthquake.
9. Watchmen by Alan Moore
This is the last of the graphic novels I added to my TBR list after making that a goal for this year. My husband sees this as definitive proof that I'm branching out in my reading this year.
10. Woman at Point Zero by Nawal El-Saadawi
Another recommendation from a friend, possibly during my year of reading diversely last year. I had never heard of it before (or since), but it's just over 100 pages, so I don't have any reason not to give it a try.
What's on your list of books to read this fall? (or spring, if you're in the southern hemisphere?)
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Tuesday, September 15, 2015
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
The Princess Bride: S. Morgenstern's Classic Tale of True Love and High Adventure by William Goldman: This was enjoyable enough to revisit, but honestly you're better off just watching the movie, since it hewed very closely to the original book. In the book, though, there were too many chapters devoted to Goldman's supposed experiences abridging the "original" Princess Bride, a conceit which got old quickly.
Mr. Popper's Penguins by Richard and Florence Atwater: This was an enjoyable reread of a children's classic. I was surprised at how practical much of it was, with the discussions about money and the logistics of keeping a penguin comfortable in a non-Antarctic climate. A lot of it is still ridiculous, certainly, but overall it was fun. I definitely recommend this one on audio, as there are a lot of bonus sound effects and music to complement the story.
The Girl with All the Gifts by M.R. Carey: My favorite read of August. For a Highly Sensitive Person who generally dislikes zombies, post-apocalyptic fiction, and anything classified as "horror," I couldn't believe how much I loved this book, which should tell you how well-written it is.
A Small Place by Jamaica Kincaid: This is an incredibly honest book about a very small Caribbean island (Antigua) — what it's like to be a tourist there, what it was like to grow up there, what it's like to live there now, and what beauty and poverty are everlasting there. Kincaid does not mince words when talking about slavery or corruption, but neither does she divide people into stark categories of good and bad; she asks important questions about where we go from here.
Nervous Conditions by Tsitsi Dangarembga: I wanted to like this Zimbabwean classic more than I did. This book has the seeds for a number of interesting stories, but it never fully commits to any of them. I liked the questions that were raised by the story about patriarchy, colonial oppression, and family loyalty, but the main character never seems to really come to any conclusions about herself or her life, and I was left not knowing what to take away from the book.
Fortunately, the Milk by Neil Gaiman: In this children's book, a father goes to the corner store to buy milk for his children's breakfast. When he gets back and they ask what took him so long, he tells them a ridiculous and hilarious tale that includes alien abductions, pirates, and time-traveling dinosaur professors. I did not expect to find this so hilarious, but it had me laughing out loud and shaking my head at the ridiculousness throughout.
The Science of Mom: A Research-Based Guide to Your Baby's First Year by Alice Callahan: This refreshingly evidence-based book was written by a scientist and mother who heard all the conflicting theories about parenting and just wanted to know what the scientific literature said. Where the research is clear, she takes a strong stance; where it is mixed, she explains benefits and risk factors and leaves the reader to decide.
Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert: I enjoyed this classic more than I expected, though this seems like the kind of book that would be more rewarding to ponder, discuss, and analyze than it necessarily is to read. I'm not sure I'd rush to recommend it to the average reader, but for anyone who wants to study the art of writing there is a lot of wealth within this novel.
A Room of One's Own by Virginia Woolf: This was slow to get into but ultimately rewarding. Woolf makes a compelling argument about the links between women's historical oppression and the lack of genius-level writing by women up to the present (1928). Both for its historical snapshot and for the aspects that still ring true today, this is worth a read.
A General Theory of Love by Dr. Thomas Lewis, Dr. Fari Amini, and Dr. Richard Lannon: I wouldn't have finished this book except that someone recommended and lent it to me. From the overblown prose and convoluted logic to the many attempted applications to parenting that were just way off base, this was a super irritating read.
Still Alice by Lisa Genova: This is a masterfully crafted novel told from the perspective of a woman with early-onset Alzheimer's. After seeing it recommended for so long, I'm glad I finally picked it up; it definitely lived up to the hype.
Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan: This fascinating memoir shows the best and worst of the medical profession as Cahalan's family seeks to get a diagnosis for her sudden psychosis that turns out to be the result of a rare autoimmune disorder. This is worth a read, both for the sheer interest factor as well as the information about preventing misdiagnoses.
Annie John by Jamaica Kincaid: This coming-of-age story is told in loosely connected vignettes — so loosely that the events of one chapter don't always match up with those of another. I liked a lot of the real-life descriptions but got lost in the amount of storytelling through dreams and symbolism. It was a good, short read, but not one I'd go out of my way to recommend.
Split by Swati Avasthi: This is solid YA contribution about the impact of living with an abusive father — and the aftermath of getting out. It would be a good book for both teenagers who have experienced abuse and those who haven't but want to better understand those who have. It's a comprehensive (at times too much so) look at the scary world of domestic violence.
Maus: A Survivor's Tale by Art Spiegelman: I liked this story of a Holocaust survivor told in graphic novel format by his son, interspersed with illustrations of their strained relationship at the end of the father's life. It didn't pack the emotional punch for me that it has for many — perhaps because I knew too much about the Holocaust to be surprised by anything, and perhaps because I got overwhelmed by the various details of people and place — but I'd still recommend it.
What have you been reading this month? Share over at Modern Mrs. Darcy!
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Monday, September 14, 2015
Top Ten Good Books You've Never Heard Of
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week is a freebie! I decided to figure out which of the books I'd read had few (under 1,000) ratings on Goodreads and recommend some of them to you.
1. Ask For It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want by Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever
A few years ago I went to an excellent conference for female professionals that focused solely around the concepts in this book, with Sara Laschever as the keynote speaker. The main idea is that women tend to be socialized not to ask for things, while men are much more likely to ask — about a higher salary, an open position, or better service at a hotel. This not only explains a large part of the wage gap but also leads to women missing out on all kinds of things they could get if they just learned to ask. Through real-life stories and exercises, the authors illustrate how to make "asking" a part of your life.
2. The Hidden Brain: How Our Unconscious Minds Elect Presidents, Control Markets, Wage Wars, and Save Our Lives by Shankar Vedantam
I learned about this book after reading an excerpt that was being shared as an online article, about transgender professionals who learned firsthand about gender discrimination when comparing their experiences before and after transitioning. This book is a good crash course in the concepts that are explored in much greater depth in the classic Thinking, Fast and Slow. One of the best takeaways for me was why I shouldn't judge people of color who see racism in innocuous situations.
3. I Had Brain Surgery, What's Your Excuse? by Suzy Becker
I ran across this book when I was volunteering as a shelf reader at the library, and the fun cover and title caught my eye. The author is a cartoonist and humorist, so this memoir of her experience needing and recovering from brain surgery was both funny and enlightening, accompanied by great illustrations.
4. In the Presence of Mystery: An Introduction to the Story of Human Religiousness by Michael H. Barnes
I had the great fortune to have Dr. Barnes as a professor of religion in college, and this book, which was the course's textbook, was incredibly readable and absolutely fascinating. Previously my understanding of religion had come primarily from my own Catholic upbringing with some knowledge of other Christian traditions and a very slight understanding of Judaism and Islam. This book covers a far broader range of world religions and uses these examples to explore the fundamentals of religious belief and practice.
5. Jesus, Mo and Cheese Puffs by Lisa Boucher
I had the opportunity to see this book in its early stages as Boucher's editor and totally loved this quirky story of an older couple taking a road trip to California and getting pulled into the lives of colorful characters at the small towns they stop at along the way. I helped her land a literary agent who unfortunately wanted to gut the book because she didn't believe a story could be told from more than one character's perspective (WTF?), so Boucher eventually gave up and self-published. This is a heartwarming and fun book that's worth a read.
6. Letters Between a Catholic and an Evangelical: From Debate to Dialogue on the Issues That Separate Us by Fr. John R. Waiss and James G. McCarthy
I went through a phase in late high school and early college of buying a lot of Christian nonfiction, and this is one of the better ones that ended up in my collection. The authors are friends and both very well-versed in theology, so they try to determine whether they can settle the religious disagreements between their traditions. (Spoiler: They can't.) What struck me most from reading this was that the things that divide Catholics and evangelicals are so... tiny, and yet ultimately fundamental to each's beliefs. I learned a lot, and the friendly tone made this a "safe" way to understand these theological differences.
7. Room for One More by Anna Perrott Rose
This is the book that first got me thinking about adoption, back in high school. It's a true story of the author's experiences taking in and ultimately adopting several foster children, in addition to her own biological children. Her stories are interspersed with reflections on parenting that I found fascinating as a teenager (particularly with the 1930s/40s backdrop). I think I bought this at a used book sale and was surprised it wasn't more widely known.
8. The Science of Mom: A Research-Based Guide to Your Baby's First Year by Alice Callahan
This is a relatively new book that will probably gain more readers over time, but I picked it up soon after it came out because of how much I like the author's blog of the same name. Callahan dives right into the most hot-button areas of parenting, from vaccinations to breastfeeding to co-sleeping, and distills the available evidence from research studies into a readable format. So much of what's out there is parenting theory, so it was refreshing to read a review of the research literature instead.
9. Tempting Faith: An Inside Story of Political Seduction by J. David Kuo
This was a recommendation from my mom. Kuo went into politics because he thought it was the best way to live out his faith and change the world for the better. What he found was politicians learning how to pay lip service to faith in order to attract voters, while having no actual interest in the areas their religious constituents were most concerned with. Having a firsthand account was both an interesting and depressing way to have my thoughts about politics confirmed.
10. Urban Injustice: How Ghettos Happen by David Hilfilker
If there is any book on this list that I could choose to make popular, it would be this one. This book, assigned reading in college, was my wake-up call about all of the beliefs I never realized I had about poverty, welfare, and the "inner city." The author cuts through any politics to provide facts and figures about the history of public assistance programs and what has worked in other parts of the world to lift people out of poverty. At 158 pages, there's no excuse not to read it.
What books have I probably never heard of that you would recommend?
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Sunday, August 30, 2015
Best of the Bunch: August 2015
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in August.
Of the 12 books I read this month, two earned a 5-star review from me:
The Girl with All the Gifts by M. R. Carey
Fortunately, the Milk by Neil Gaiman
And the best of the bunch was...
I never read books classified as "horror," but this came highly recommended from many corners, so I gave it a shot. It was fantastic. Yes, it has zombies, but it doesn't dwell as heavily on the gore as you might expect. (There was only one passage I had to skip wholesale.) The characters are diverse in their backgrounds and how they respond to the situations they're thrown into, which makes for an often-surprising, always-intriguing plot. Although the book necessarily has a lot in common with other post-apocalyptic literature, the ending was unique and thought-provoking. Definitely recommended.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
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Monday, August 24, 2015
Top Ten Books That Would Be on my Syllabus for "Crafting Your Life 101"
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
To be clear, I would never teach a class in which I assigned ten full-length books to be read in a single semester. However, if I was teaching a class like this, I would draw on these ten books to share examples and assign chapters to read. This class would be intended to teach students how to build the life they want regardless of their chosen career, meaning they are happy, financially stable, organized, and equipped with the skills to achieve their goals and spend their time on the things that matter most to them.
If that kind of class sounds good to you, then may I recommend a selection of books...
1. 168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam
If you think you know how you're spending your time, Vanderkam thinks you're probably wrong. First she shows how most people don't really know where their time goes, then she tells you how to figure out where your time is going, and finally she helps you determine what you want to be spending your time on and how to make that a reality.
2. The Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande
How do airline pilots make decisions in high-pressure, emergency situations? They pull out the relevant checklist and start going through the steps. If you're going to craft the life you want, you need some tools, and a checklist is a deceptively simple but ultimately powerful one to have in your toolbox.
3. Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
It's hardly worth building a life where you do all the right things if you can't be vulnerable enough to experience the highs and lows that make life worth living. In this fiercely honest book, Brown will show you how to rise above shame and fear to live as a "wholehearted" person.
4. Finding Your Own North Star by Martha N. Beck
Many of these books help you achieve your goals, but what if you don't know what your goals are in the first place? Beck provides specific exercises to guide you step by step through the process of identifying your life's passion, identifying and overcoming the obstacles to achieving it, and dealing with the inevitable fallout of making a significant life change.
5. The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
Rubin has reviewed all the theories and research related to happiness and come up with her own approach, one that requires determining what makes you feel good, feel bad, and feel right. Her systematic program involves focusing on one area of your life each month of the year, trying new things and building up habits that generate more happiness in your life.
6. I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi
Sethi allows zero excuses when it comes to getting your personal finances in order. None. If you're willing to put up with his tough-love approach, then he's got a week-by-week program that will let you define what "rich" means you to and then set you on the road to getting there.
7. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondō
How could I not include this book when talking about getting your life on track? Kondō's approach is intended to help you declutter so thoroughly that you will end up owning nothing but what you love or need, organized in such a way that you can always find what you want, and she guarantees that if you do it right the first time you'll never relapse. So far my own experience has borne out this lofty claim.
8. The Luck Factor by Richard Wiseman
Wiseman blasts apart the idea that some people are just lucky or unlucky. He shows how lucky people tend to share similar traits (which unlucky people are lacking), and he's been able to train people in the necessary skills to improve their "luck." A must-read if you feel like your ideal life is out of reach because bad things just keep happening to you.
9. The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
Although this isn't the greatest book I've read on behavior change research, Duhigg manages to translate the available research into specific steps that individuals can take to create (or break) habits in their own lives. He explores why habits matter to making change in our lives, how new habits are formed, and what happens when the habits built are destructive.
10. The Willpower Instinct by Kelly McGonigal
McGonigal teaches her own class, The Science of Willpower, which provided much of the material for this book. (And wouldn't you like to take a class with Professor McGonigal?) Although it's better to set up an environment in which doing the "right" thing is easy, there will always be times when you have to "choose the harder thing," and that's what this book tackles. Chapter by chapter, McGonigal presents suggestions for how to strengthen and apply one's willpower, with a variety of interesting exercises to try.
Bonus reading: Mindless Eating by Brian Wansink, which will make all your eating experiences better and more intentional, and Nudge by Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein and Switch by Chip Heath and Dan Heath, for more on behavior change as it relates to organizations and populations.
What books would you add to the syllabus for a class like this?
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Monday, August 17, 2015
My Top Ten Always-Want-to-Read Authors
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week's topic is actually which authors' books you'll automatically buy, but I stopped buying books a long time ago except in rare instances (like a book club read that I can't get from the library). So instead, these are the authors, when I hear they have a new book out, I'll add it to my to-read list regardless of the topic or genre and may even put it on hold at the library immediately.
1. Nadia Bolz-Weber
Her first book, Pastrix, was beyond amazing, and I can't wait for Accidental Saints to be released next month. Her brutal honesty and raw faith is sorely needed in the world of Christian publishing.
2. Vanessa Diffenbaugh
The Language of Flowers is my favorite book of all time, and Modern Mrs. Darcy recently clued me in that Diffenbaugh has finally released another book, We Never Asked for Wings, that comes out today. Sign me up!
3. John Green
I became a Nerdfighter way back in 2007, so I'd read Looking for Alaska and An Abundance of Katherines before Paper Towns even came out (which I stayed up late reading the day I got it), and then I preordered The Fault in Our Stars in late 2011. I'm glad he takes his time with each book and has a trusted editor, because the recent media craze around the movies based on his books means stuff will easily sell just because it has his name slapped on it. (Case in point: This Star Won't Go Out, which deserved way more thoughtful editing than it got.)
4. Rachel Held Evans
I've been a longtime reader of her blog, and though I've only read A Year of Biblical Womanhood, I have Faith Unraveled on my shelf and her latest, Searching for Sunday, on my to-read list. I've met her in person a few times and she is as funny and gracious in person as she is in her writing.
5. Khaled Hosseini
After the heartwrenching pair of books that was The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns, I probably wouldn't have picked up And the Mountains Echoed if not for my book club, and I would have hugely missed out. I will definitely give his next book a chance.
6. Barbara Kingsolver
Kingsolver has written some of my very favorite books, including The Poisonwood Bible, The Bean Trees, and her nonfiction/memoir Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, which led to my becoming a vegetarian. I was less impressed with Flight Behavior, but I'm more than willing to give her another shot.
7. Marie Kondō
In case I haven't mentioned like 5 million times how much I love The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up — I do. Kondō has a number of other books that haven't yet been translated into English (though there's one forthcoming in December), and now that she's expecting her first child I would imagine she will want to share some firsthand advice on decluttering with children.
8. Liane Moriarty
Moriarty stunned me with how much I loved What Alice Forgot, and she cemented herself as one of my favorite authors with Big Little Lies. I'm a little hesitant to pick up her other books that haven't been rated as highly, but I'm pretty sure I'll end up trying The Husband's Secret, and I'll definitely read whatever comes out next.
9. J.K. Rowling / Robert Galbraith
As I shared last week, I've read basically every book Rowling's written (under either name), and I was very excited to hear how many more books are planned for the Cormoran Strike series.
10. Jenny Wingfield
I loved her debut novel, The Homecoming of Samuel Lake, and I've been waiting for her to write something since! This is another one where her first book was so good that I'm almost afraid to pick up anything else she writes... but I'll do it anyway. Unfortunately I can't find any evidence that she's planning to release another book in the future, and it looks like she's been off social media since 2013.
Who are your absolutely-will-read-their-next-book authors?
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