Friday, October 31, 2025

Best of the Bunch (October 2025)

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Today I'm sharing the best book I read in October.

Of the 11 books I read this month, I had two 5-star reads:

Humankind: A Hopeful History by Rutger Bregman

It Had to Be Him by Adib Khorram

I love everything Khorram writes, but since I already featured the first in this romance series as a previous Best of the Bunch (September 2024), I'm going to go with the other one this time!
Humankind was exactly what I needed right now. Bregman argues that how we view humanity as a whole becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and that our collective belief (reinforced by simplified histories, sketchy but famous psychological experiments, economic theories, and the criminal justice system generally) that humans are inherently selfish actually doesn't hold up to the evidence. I appreciated that Bregman takes the reader on his own journey of looking into questions about human nature, coming up with seemingly disappointing answers, and then digging below the surface to show that there's more going on than meets the eye. I'm sure that folks could find other evidence to poke holes in Bregman's theories, though I appreciated how often he cited meta-analyses and showed how a single story wasn't the whole picture. Even if not watertight, I appreciate having a solid collection of evidence that having trust, hope, and faith in humanity is not naïve. I would highly recommend this read (or listen — it was great on audio).

What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Useful Delusions, The Strange Case of Origami Yoda, The Usborne Book of Puzzle Adventures, and Somewhere Beyond the Sea
Five years ago I was reading: Amazing Grace and To Kill a Mockingbird
Ten years ago I was reading: Jesus Calling, A Snicker of Magic, Lonesome Dove, and David Copperfield 

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Wednesday, October 15, 2025

What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)

Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.

This reading month was a mixed bag for me, with some great reads and some that were disappointing. Here's what I read this past month.

Master Your Attachment Style: Learn How to Build Healthy & Long-Lasting Relationships by Scott A. Young: The best thing I can say about this book is that it was earnest. It reads very much like a college student took a Psychology 101 class and learned how to read peer-reviewed research articles and is now very eager to tell you everything they know about attachment theory. It was pretty rough.

Mirrored Heavens by Rebecca Roanhorse: Roanhorse's world-building and character interactions kept me engaged throughout this trilogy, but ultimately I felt the pacing of this final book was too uneven, the characters' decisions too incomprehensible, and the book generally too dark and gory for my taste.

The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna: This was a delightful read that combined several of my favorite things: found family, adorable sibling relationships, excellent banter, crisp world-building, and a stellar audiobook narrator. There's a grumpy/sunshine romance, the development of which felt earned, and things all tie up with a bow in the end, but in a way that didn't feel rushed or entirely implausible.

You Know, Sex: Bodies, Gender, Puberty, and Other Things by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth: I think everything Silverberg and Smyth put out is stellar — well researched, inclusive, accessible, and honest without being overwhelming. In addition to covering the facts about puberty, reproduction, and so on, Silverberg places a big emphasis on communication, respect, autonomy, trust, justice, and all the other aspects of relationships that get glossed over in traditional sex ed.

Meditations for Mortals: Four Weeks to Embrace Your Limitations and Make Time for What Counts by Oliver Burkeman: As with his first book, I appreciate Burkeman's practical approach to the finitude of life and embracing the present moment. This time around I bristled at the number of (incorrect) assumptions he made about me as a reader, though ultimately I still think Burkeman has a gift for laying out the realities of time and space and encouraging the reader on ways to use these limits to create a good, fulfilling life now.

The Well of Ascension by Brandon Sanderson: I am in awe of Sanderson's ability to layer so much into a single book's plot. The plot twists in this book were perfect — unexpected, yet logical in retrospective. As with the first book, this one contains its own plot arc while also being just a piece of a larger story. Absolutely nothing is guaranteed here — not who will live or die, and not who will gain, hold onto, or lose power. It's a mind-blowing series so far.

Humankind: A Hopeful History by Rutger Bregman: This was exactly what I needed right now. Bregman argues that how we view humanity as a whole becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and that our collective belief that humans are inherently selfish actually doesn't hold up to the evidence. Even if not watertight, I appreciate having a solid collection of evidence that having trust, hope, and faith in humanity is not naïve.

Island of a Thousand Mirrors by Nayomi Munaweera: This book is another example of commitment to an agenda coming at the expense of an immersive story. It's a beautifully written book that covers every possible angle of the Sri Lankan civil war, but it covers so much in so few pages that the ability to care about any one character is diluted and the overall plot meanders along with the agenda. It's good for learning and good for beautiful sentences, but I can't recommend it for character development or a strong plot.

Looking back:
One year ago I was reading: Excuse Me, Sir!The Strange Case of Origami Yoda, and Light from Uncommon Stars
Five years ago I was reading: The Vanishing Half, Ace, and Sabriel
Ten years ago I was reading: Jesus CallingA Snicker of Magic, David Copperfield, and Death in the Andes