Monday, May 30, 2016
Best of the Bunch: May 2016
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in May.
Of the 12 books I read this month, I had just one 5-star read, and it is definitely one of the best books I've read this year.
Being Mortal is a rare book that honestly and accessibly deals with the end of life and all that it entails. Atul Gawande takes us from nursing homes to hospitals to show how modern medicine's triumphs in extending life have made it harder and harder for us to accept the true end of life when it approaches. We focus on keeping the elderly "safe" even if it means depriving them of all the things that give meaning and quality to their lives. We put the terminally ill through painful, expensive, and increasingly fruitless efforts to extend their life just a little bit longer, even if it means they miss out on having a "good ending," where they can continue to pursue their goals and relationships and manage their suffering. I want to get this into the hands of every medical professional out there, but in the meantime, everyone else ought to read it too.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
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Monday, May 16, 2016
Ten Books I Picked Up on a Whim
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
I rarely pick up books on a whim anymore — I much prefer getting recommendations and then working my way through these books on my to-read list. However, for a short time I volunteered as a shelf reader at my local library, so I picked up some books that way, and other books have found their way to me unexpectedly. Here are some books I hadn't heard of before I decided to read them!
1. The Autobiography of an Ex Colored Man by James Weldon Johnson
This book I found on my brother's bookshelf when I was staying at my parents' house one time, and I guess I was bored because I sat down and read it all. (It's a pretty short book.) Knowing nothing about it when I picked it up, I don't think I realized until I was done that it was actually a novel and not a true autobiography.
2. The Book of Sarahs by Catherine E. McKinley
I came across this randomly in the library at college and picked it up because 1) it was about adoption and 2) I have been inadvertently called "Sarah" for various reasons throughout my whole life. Although the writing wasn't great, this book started me on looking more into transracial adoption and was one of the reasons we ultimately chose not to adopt a child of another race.
3. The Complete Financial Guide for Young Couples by Larry Burkett
I picked this up at a garage sale the summer we got married, while we were out searching for secondhand furniture for our new apartment. Although some of the ideas are really dated and occasionally sexist, I found Burkett's practical tone an antidote to the guilt I'd felt after reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad about the fact that I was just getting a regular office job. Nowadays I would recommend I Will Teach You to Be Rich, which is a better book about defining and achieving your own definition of "rich," but this one was a good starting point for me at the time.
4. Devilish by Maureen Johnson
My then-fiancé and I spent a summer living with his aunt in New Jersey in her big, non-air-conditioned Victorian. We were both sporadically employed that summer, and on many days I would make the sweltering walk to the local library where I would spend the afternoon reading in glorious air conditioning. This was one I picked up because I recognized the author's name from vlogbrothers, but it wasn't nearly as good as some of Johnson's other work that I've read since.
5. How Starbucks Saved My Life by Michael Gates Gill
This is one that caught my eye while shelf reading. Like many other less-well-known memoirs, the writing isn't stellar, and yes, it can come off like an advertisement for Starbucks. But I still remember scenes from this "riches-to-rags" story of a laid-off middle-aged white guy who gets an hourly job at Starbucks and has to totally revamp his worldview.
6. I Had Brain Surgery, What's Your Excuse? by Suzy Becker
This is another one from shelf reading — I guess I'm a sucker for an interesting title and fun cover. This one actually ended up being quite good — I laughed a lot and I learned a lot.
7. I Like Being Married by Michael Leach and Therese J. Borchard
Another shelf-reading pick. I read this when we'd been married for a little over a year, and it was a nice contrast to the doom-and-gloom and sitcom portrayals of marriage everywhere. It's basically a collection of quotes and stories from people (including some celebrities) about why they like being married or about meeting their spouse. Nothing earth-shattering, but it's a cute, sweet book about the positives of marriage.
8. Letters Between a Catholic and an Evangelical by Fr. John R. Waiss and James G. McCarthy
It's been a long time, but I'm almost positive that I found this book while I was a trip to a local monastery with my Christian scholars program in college, and I bought it on a whim. It turned out to be an extremely helpful book for me — despite being raised Catholic, I didn't know a lot about the tenets of the faith until coming to a Catholic university, and I knew even less about what separated Catholics from Evangelical Protestants. The answer turned out to be a series of things that are surprisingly small but ultimately vital to everything else each faith believes.
9. Some We Love, Some We Hate, Some We Eat by Hal Herzog
My brother was actually the one who came across this book, and he sent me a text of the cover with the words "haha" because "Some We Hate" was on the silhouette of a rat. (We had two pet rats at the time.) I was curious about the book so I ended up getting it at the library and reading it. I remember that the writing was a little choppy, but the ideas in the book have stayed with me and informed my thinking about human-animal relationships ever since.
10. Water from the Well by Anne Roiphe
I read this as part of my 2011 "happiness project," for the month I was focusing on Faith. I actually have no idea how I chose this specific book, but given the very small number of ratings on Goodreads (38) I think it's more likely that I came across it at the library than that it was recommended to me. It fleshes out the stories of four women from the Bible, not fictionalizing them but using historical context to describe what was probably going on in their lives. I don't remember if I liked it!
It's interesting to see from this list that many of these books wouldn't necessarily have been recommended to me because their writing was only so-so, but in some cases their ideas have stayed with me for a long time. Maybe I should try to read books spontaneously more often. What do you think?
What are some books you've picked up on a whim?
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Sunday, May 15, 2016
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
We're just finishing up the first of two moves this summer (we'll be moving to a permanent place in August) so I've gotten pretty behind on reading. After finishing the audiobooks I'd been working on for a while, I picked up a handful of short reads just to feel like I finished something this past month! Here's what I've been reading.
Ragtime by E.L. Doctorow: This fictionalized look at early 20th century New York was interesting to read on the heels of reading about this same time period in the (non-fiction) book below. Doctorow weaves together a number of stories around a central story involving an unspecified upper middle class family, peppered by real historical figures and culminating in a story of injustice and terrorism. I found it disjointed but ultimately engaging, though there was a blanket of melancholy over how every character experienced life that I thought was a tad pessimistic.
A People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn: It took me several attempts to get into this book, as I'm not naturally that interested in history, but getting it on audio helped. Zinn does an admirable job of achieving what he set out to do — namely, tell the history of the United States from 1492 to the present through the lens of what the common American experienced at each stage in history. I definitely think this is worth a read for every United States citizen, and even for anyone outside the United States looking for a comprehensive history of the country.
The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce: I picked this up thinking it would be a "fun" book based on the title and premise, so my disappointment with it is partly my own fault. It is the opposite of a fun book. The main character experiences physical setbacks throughout his journey, and he's also left alone to contemplate his horrible childhood, his cold marriage, and his nonexistent relationship with his son. The ending is, at best, bittersweet. A lot of people loved this one, so maybe if you know what you're getting into you'll enjoy it more than I did.
The Church of Mercy: A Vision for the Church by Pope Francis: This compilation of some of Pope Francis' speeches (and some writings) in his first year as pope covers a broad range of topics. Some of his advice is practical, though much of it is pretty overarching, which is not surprising since these were all relatively short speeches or writings. I don't recommend it on audio, as it's worth reading slowly and taking time to digest it. He's much more concerned with how we live day to day, how we pray, and how we care for those most in need than any aspect of the "culture wars" American Christianity seems to spend so much energy on.
The Mouse and the Motorcycle by Beverly Cleary: My gauge for what books children will enjoy is off by about two decades (and my son's not old enough yet), but this seemed to be a good classic Cleary book that hits the mark for kids. It has adventure and danger, problem-solving, and discussions of maturity and responsibility. Certainly it's a bit dated in some ways, but that's OK. I found it to be sweet and definitely one I would reread again with my kids.
A Long Walk to Water by Linda Sue Park: I liked almost everything about this book; I just wished it wasn't so short. It's based on the true story of Salva Dut, his experience as a Sudanese refugee, and his mission to give back to the place he came from. It's interspersed with a present-day fictionalized story of a Sudanese girl whose village receives a well; these portions are very brief, which can make the book feel unbalanced at times. If you don't know a lot about the Second Sudanese Civil War and the Lost Boys of Sudan, this is a good introduction.
Being Mortal by Atul Gawande: This is one of those rare books that I wish I could make required reading for everyone. Gawande takes us from nursing homes to hospitals to show how modern medicine's triumphs in extending life have made it harder and harder for us to accept the true end of life when it approaches. We focus on safety and longevity over quality of life. This is an especially important book for medical professionals, but ultimately is valuable for everyone who will one day face death.
A Dog's Purpose by W. Bruce Cameron: This was such a sweet book! It's told from a perspective of a dog who is reborn multiple times, always bringing along the lessons and memories from past lives. We also get a glimpse into the wide range of ways that people treat dogs, and the many ways that dogs can be valuable companions to humans. Definitely recommended for dog lovers.
What have you been reading this month? Share over at Modern Mrs. Darcy!
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Friday, April 29, 2016
Best of the Bunch: April 2016
Today I'm sharing the best book I read in April.
I only got through four books this month, which tells you how busy I've been. There were no 5- or 4.5-star reads this month. I did have two 4-star reads:
Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by Jon Krakauer
A People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn
I debated about which to pick as the best of the bunch, but the one I would be most likely to recommend is...
This was a fascinating look at Mormon Fundamentalism and how the early years of Mormonism provided the roots for various fundamentalist beliefs, particularly polygamy and blood atonement. Although this book could (understandably) be viewed as a criticism of Mormonism, Krakauer says in the author's note that he originally set out to write a book about faith and religion more generally. As Krakauer points out, what's unique about Mormonism is that it came to life in the age of the printing press, so its development is much more well-documented than most faiths, and that allows it to function as a case study for what is true of many religions — for example, that its fundamentalists can trace their beliefs to the religion's own texts and doctrines, but interpreted in a way that most mainstream followers do not. I didn't love the way the book was organized, but I learned a lot from it.
What is the best book you read this month? Let me know in comments, or write your own post and link up below!
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Monday, April 25, 2016
Top Ten Bookworm Delights
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week's topic is about book-related experiences in our life that make us happy. Here are ten of mine!
1. BOOK CLUBS
I'm in two book clubs. I used to be in four book clubs but two of them stopped meeting. I have to prevent myself from joining more book clubs because I will never have time to read what I want to read otherwise. But I love talking about books so much! Unless you read a super-popular book, it can be hard to find other people who've read the same book you just finished and want to talk about it.
2. Being asked for book recommendations
I love giving people recommendations. I prefer when they have a specific genre in mind, because otherwise I end up going, "Here are 15 of my favorite books!" because hey, I don't know which ones they've read before or what they're going to be in the mood for! Being the go-to person among my friends for recommending good books makes me super happy. More than one person has told me that books I recommend always go to the top of their to-read list!
3. People following up later about books I recommended
Even more than recommending books, I love when people already read the books I recommend and then tell me what they thought! It's nice to have that follow-up anyway, and then we can actually discuss the book (which is my favorite — see #1). Even if they didn't like it as much as I thought they would, talking about it lets me know how to better recommend books to them in the future.
4. Getting a personal book recommendation that is actually spot-on
I read a lot, and so I know that the range of books that other people love and want to recommend can fall anywhere from true love to utter hatred for me. People have such different tastes that I can be skeptical about getting recommendations from someone who doesn't know my reading style that well and just thinks I'll like what they like. That's why it's such a joy when someone personally recommends a book to me and it turns out to be one that I love!
5. Finding someone who shared my feelings (love or hate) about a book
When I finish a book that I have strong feelings about, I need the validation of knowing that I'm not the only one who feels that way. Goodreads is great for getting that validation, but even better is finding someone in person who's read the book I'm talking about and knows exactly what I mean about it.
6. Finding someone who likes the same lesser-known author I do
Do you know how excited I was the first time I found someone else who not only knew who David Eddings was but was a fan of his books? As much as I love introducing people to a great author they've never heard of, it's even better when I find someone who already shares my love for that author's work.
7. Getting my library to buy a digital copy of a book I want to read
Reading in digital formats has caused me to read way more than I did before, and I'm more likely to start a book if I can download it. When I discovered that OverDrive has a feature that allows you to recommend which books your library should have in its digital collection, it was basically life-changing. They don't buy every book I recommend (obviously), but they've bought almost 90 different books because I recommended them, which is amazing!
8. Finishing a book in the nick of time
I squeeze a lot of reading in around the rest of my life, but it's so frustrating when I only have a few pages left in a book and I have to stop reading. On the flip side, it's satisfying when I have only a few more minutes and then find myself on the last page of the book — then I can leave the world of the book behind and focus on what's next in my day without wondering about how everything ends.
9. Reading every book on a list of recommendations
It was fun to finally check off the last book on the list of classics I'd had since middle school. I haven't found another list on Goodreads or List Challenges where I've read every book, but on many the only ones missing are on my to-read list, so I'll get there eventually!
10. Fan art about reading or favorite books
Sometimes you just have to share your love of reading with the world. Some of the things on my birthday list for this year are this custom ideal bookshelf print (assuming I can confidently settle on the list of books), this Borges quote T-shirt, this "I Heart Books" T-shirt, and this Dillard quote poster. So fun!
What delights you as a bookworm?
Monday, April 18, 2016
Ten Books That Made Me Laugh
I'm linking up with The Broke and the Bookish for another Top Ten Tuesday.
This week it is books that make me laugh! I don't know if they will make you laugh, too, but I hope so. I've found that when other people try to recommend funny things to me I often don't think they're that funny, so I can't guarantee that my sense of humor will be the same as yours, but many of these have been cited by other people as being funny as well. Here are ten books that made me laugh.
1. Bossypants by Tina Fey
This is held up as the quintessential comedian memoir, and for good reason. I'm not a big SNL fan and I've never seen 30 Rock, but I still loved it.
2. Couplehood by Paul Reiser
The Internet tells me that this is super dated now, but whatever, I read it 10 years ago and thought it was funny then. I was about two years into my relationship with my now-husband, and it seemed like an accurate depictions of relationships to me at the time.
3. Dave Barry's Complete Guide to Guys by Dave Barry
I don't know if I would enjoy this as much now, but when I first read this there were passages I couldn't stop laughing at. In high school my friends and I read the section on sex out loud to make each other laugh.
4. Fortunately, the Milk by Neil Gaiman
This children's book is so ridiculous that I couldn't stop laughing and saying, "What?!?" out loud while listening to it.
5. Good Omens by Terry Pratchett and Neil Gaiman
This was my introduction to both authors, and I'm not sure anything else either of them has written comes close for sheer hilarious fun.
6. Hyperbole and a Half by Allie Brosh
I loved and read everything on her blog before this book came out, and then I laughed out loud throughout the whole book, even the stuff I'd already read on the blog. The one about moving with dogs is my favorite.
7. Let's Pretend This Never Happened by Jenny Lawson
I read this at my aunt and uncle's house and everyone kept asking me what I was reading because I couldn't stop laughing the whole time I read it. My husband, who rarely reads, even read it because he opened it to a random page and it made him laugh out loud.
8. Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli
Besides being a cute romance and a scarily accurate depiction of high school awkwardness, this book had tons of lines that made me laugh out loud. Sorry to all the people in the gym where I was listening to this on audiobook...
9. The Year of Living Biblically by A.J. Jacobs
I don't love all of Jacobs' writing, but something about this book in particular was pitch-perfect for me, maybe because it so thoroughly destroyed the idea of a "literal interpretation" of the Bible through the most extreme method possible.
10. Yes Please by Amy Poehler
Amy Poehler's observations about life, womanhood, and celebrity are just fantastic, and while not all of her humor hits the mark with me, I still laughed out loud a lot throughout this book.
What are some books that made you laugh?
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Friday, April 15, 2016
What I've Been Reading Lately (Quick Lit)
Today I'm linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy's Quick Lit to bring you some short and sweet reviews of what I've read in the past month. For longer reviews, you can always find me on Goodreads.
Not a ton of reads this past month, as I've been working my way through A People's History of the United States.
The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ by Joseph Smith, Jr.: Despite the dryness of most holy texts, I've enjoyed this project of reading them for the ability to see exactly what is in these books. I had a LOT of thoughts about this read, but I will sum them up by saying that it seems like Mormons think they can convert people if they could just get them to read this book, and in my case, that definitely didn't work.
Citizen: An American Lyric by Claudia Rankine: Using a collection of personal stories and those of people she knows, told as the second-person "you," Rankine immerses the reader in the modern-day experience of being a black woman in America. I loved the audiobook narrator but got a bit lost in the collection of video transcripts near the end. I definitely recommend this read.
Borderlands/La Frontera: The New Mestiza by Gloria E. AnzaldĂşa: I don't think I "got" what makes this book a classic, maybe because I don't speak any Spanish. There were portions of the book that were very powerful and resonant, but then it would go off in weird directions and I would have no idea what was going on. I'm glad some people have gotten a lot from this book, but I found it difficult to get through.
Spark Joy: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up by Marie KondĹŤ: This was 100% what I expected and needed out of a "master class." Although we'd pared down our possessions the first time around (after reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, this gave me detailed suggestions for organizing and storing those things we want to keep.
Cold Sassy Tree by Olive Ann Burns: This was a reread of a previous favorite for book club. I still love many of the characters and the picture the novel paints of a small Southern town at the turn of the 20th century. There was some troublesome parts I missed the first time around, though, and I don't think I realized how much the book is trying to get us inside the head of a 14-year-old boy. Still recommended, but with more caution.
Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by Jon Krakauer: I bumped this to the top of the list after reading The Book of Mormon. It's a fascinating look at Mormon Fundamentalism and how the early years of Mormonism provided the roots for various fundamentalist beliefs, particularly polygamy and blood atonement. Much of what is true of Mormonism is true of other religions, but as Krakauer says, this is a faith that came of age during the era of the printing press, so we can trace its development much more easily.
What have you been reading this month? Share over at Modern Mrs. Darcy!
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